Mom's neck healed beautifully, which, at her age (93), surprised everyone. Her refusal to use a walker or wear her neck brace in the car, however, is a great source of worry, given my father (90) is the one ferrying her around, and she has balance issues. His health isn't ideal, either -- the result of some major back issues and dehydration (at what point does the dislike of running to the bathroom more frequently outweigh the sensible intake of fluids? This baffles me.) Anyway, it's the age-old conundrum: they really shouldn't be living independently, but nobody can talk them into moving until something major happens. So until the other shoe drops, my siblings and I will take turns checking up on them.
I did manage to get pics of my little Urban Indigo lap quilt while I was there:
Lesson learned, and another quilt finished.
It's strange to be back in the city. I'd gotten used to the suburbs (though the Japanese beetles ravaging the roses were driving me crazy, I was killing hundreds of them a day), Michigan prices (a dollar goes a lot further there than in Chicago), eating dinner at 4:30 and the convenience of handicap parking everywhere we went.
While I am very happy to be sleeping soundly in my own big bed (Archie too!), even after a few days back it still feels like my shoes are on the wrong feet. It's going to take some time, I think, to find my groove again.





1 comment:
Your little Urban Indigo quilt is cute! And your stitching looks great to me.
Sorry to hear about your travails in Michigan. Aging parents are a difficult thing, for many reasons. I went through it with my Mom. Your words sound very familiar. Wishing you luck in dealing with this as it progresses.
Hope you've adjusted to the Big City again. It does take a bit to re-adjust (except for sleeping in your own bed!) And I'm sure Archie is happy that everything is back to "normal".
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